amazingly and surprisingly, both of grandparents lit up my day yesterday:D yea, yesterday was like a total rush for me. and you could use a train to describe my day yesterday, that was why i didn't post. well, my dad's morning LOUD actions woke me up and i just realize that it's 8am in the morning. and the bad thing is that no matter how hard i try to get to sleep, i just can't can't. so i gave in and woke up with a =.= face. dad's out of the house when i woke up and how lonely can it be, eating breakfast all alone in that cold cold kitchen of yours? that was what happened to me anyways. but fortunately, BOTH my grandma came and bought me lunch. they entertained me though, with their conversation. hahas. and, I DID WORK OKAYS? applause pls;D dad came back and i went to zzz. went for dance and left the dance studio half an hr before time. then rush rush rush home, changed, and i'm off. :D had dinner outside and my grandpa made me laugh and i almost rolled onto the ground. it was so damn funny. lols! reached home about 9 and i'm on my bed at 10 because i'm THAT tired. yesterday afternoon i was still looking at my archives, looking through my past posts, i can't believe i actually wrote some of them. lols. as in, i just feel that my way of posting is getting more and more different when i grow older. LOL. and probably one day, i should go back to my previous blog and take a good look at what i posted last year. well, one thing i can conclude is that many things have changed, not a bit, but in a large quantity. i moved to this new blog because i wanted a new change in me. but i guess it's not that i want to change and there i go, i've changed. indeed, i've changed quite alot and of course it's not only because of one specific reason but many many reasons. people might ask" is the change in oneself a good thing or bad thing?" or they might ask "is the change in oneself changing in a negative or positive way?" i do not deny that i have once thought of these two questions and a point of time, i really don't know that answer too. but probably, as the times goes on, one will realize if that is really a bad or good change. but in actual fact, there is really no correct defnination to that;D it all depends on how oneself think of themselves. whether they want to be the most perfect person in the world, or just an ordinary next-door-girl/boy. and this, has let me think of happiness. well, i just read an article on happiness yesterday:D and i really found that it's damn meaningful. shall type it out in chinese.
幸福是什么？这是一个说难也难，说容易也容易的问题。说它难，是因为它没有一个确切的定义，实在难以用一、两句话把它概括清楚；说它简单，是因为它没有衡量的统一尺度和标准，每一个人都可以根据自己的理解与感受去解释和回答。这就是说，每个人都有自己的幸福观，价值观，每个人都有自己的幸福标准。达到了这个标准，你就会觉得自己是幸福的；而达不到这个标准，你就会觉得自己是不幸福的，甚至悲叹自己十分不幸。因此，可以说，究竟幸福与否，在很大的程度上取决于人们自己幸福标准的高低。
而且，世界上既没有绝对的幸福，也没有绝对的不幸福。在你认为自己很不幸福的时候，或许有人会觉得你很幸福，甚至羡慕、嫉妒你；在你认为自己很幸福的时候，或许有人会认为你并不幸福，甚至令人可怜同情。这是因为每个人的幸福标准不同。
幸福与不幸福往往是在比较中感受的。你与那些出境不太好的人相比，也许你觉得自己算是幸福的；但是你在于那些处境比较好的人相比，也许你会觉得自己是不幸福的。这是因为比较的标准不同。
每个人的幸福的标准也不是一成不变的。也许过去你认为是很幸福的事情，而现在却觉得不幸福；也许过去你认为很不幸福的事情，现在却觉得幸福了。这是因为你的幸福的标准发生了变化。
有诗人形容幸福是遥不可及的， 从远处看来十分美好，一旦追求到手觉得不过如此。幸福难道真的不过如此吗？我们每天早上与家人共进早餐，晚上回到家洗个热水澡，然后进入温暖的被窝就寝。这种看起来平常、不过如此的生活，许多人都没有意识到；而一旦失去了他的时候，才觉得拥有它是在实在是莫大的幸福。可以说，这才是最基本的幸福。
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