follow your heart♥: i spell S-W-E-A-T and H-A-R-D-W-O-R-K

hello guys! i came back from dance not long ago. and i nearly died from it. oh my): before that i was having a great time mugging up with cheng. and i realize something, I LOVE WORDS MORE THAN PICTURES! hahas. thanks to cheng, i'm totally engrossed in books nowadays. went library to study and borrowed books. next time you go to a library, go search for this book "A Time for Dancing" trust me, it's damn nice. the plot's not cheesy alrights? :D hearts it. just saw a blog post from louisa's blog. and i find that it makes alot alot of sense. sorry if this offend anyone. but i guess we have the same thoughts:/ here it goes.

Like now, I don't think women need men.
Okay, maybe for my age group, it should be girls need boys.
We don't need boys to excel in our studies, we don't need boys to make us feel beautiful, we don't need boys to gain social acceptance.
I used to think that having crushes on boys makes our school life more colourful and exciting
and who can deny us of that moment of bliss when he or she looks or talks to you right?
However, think realistically, are these crushes really worth all the headaches?
True, you get that thrill of the moment but in the long run, nothing is gained.
You just lose concentration in class, which equals to deteriorating studies.
You talk about nothing but your crush, which makes you a lot less interesting.
Your life just revolves around you and your crush.
It's a little pathetic. I might sound cynical, but it's true.
Though of course, all of us go through the crushes stages before, including me, like duh?
Now that I think about it, I think that at that period of my life, I might have been quite pathetic, thinking about him all day and all night long.
But what has it come to now?
Nothing.
Getting hurt and hurt all over again by your used-to-be close friend and the guy.
He was pretty nice.
He still is.
But nothing can change the fact that there wasn't even anything in the first place;
just wishful thinking on my part.
All these happened ages ago and I don't know why I'm talking about it now.
But, I think that this was the experience that made me not want to trust having crushes so much now.
All crushes do are to hurt you, at least most are.
If you're one of the lucky 10% few, congratulations(:

well, sorry if it sounds cynical or ironic, but really, give it a thought. it all makes sense and yes, here comes where the stubborness appear. LOL. actually i don't really care but think, when there is a stead, there will probably be a break. and not all teenage love last forever eh? go ask 10 of your friends who are currently having a stead, and 10 years down the road, see if they're still with the current stead they're having now, and you will get what i mean. i don't mean to offend anyone here once again i emphasis. but TRY and be open to all views and opinions. that's what life's about right? one can't be living in one's own world throughout the whole life. and one has to wake up from that deep deep slumber. i just realize that my recent posts are all so damn long o___o plus, i saw louisa 3 days straight! hohos. and back to dance, i saied i nearly died cos i did the same exercise for more/at least 5 times. so yea, -phew- anyways, i'm off to bath:D before that, here are the pics we took yesterday and today:D cheers and don't be offended okays peeps!