where does the limelight shine?

well, answer to my question, limelight shines on the one who is willing to learn, willing to put in more effort than the rest, and on the one who is much more outstanding than others. perseverance is the main key to success. working hard and persuing dreams are a need. but among all of these, individuality stands out the most. without individuality, so what if one perservere? so what if one succeed? going with the flow isn't the way to do things or making them right. knowing what one really want is the main matter. and this has made me think of the silly little girl and the funny old tree. zzz.



i chose cherish. but the day after i chose cherish, i went back my word. the words hurt and i really wonder. do all the days matter to you? you probably had no idea how happy i was when i was with you. those words replayed in my mind, even though it was not said by you, but are those words from the bottom of your heart? people tell me not to believe those words. but, what about you? cold war isn't fun. and i want to end it badly but the decision doesn't lie in me. it lies within you.

is this motivation or a sign to retreat?